Thursday, December 11, 2014

Live with Less, DE clutter, DE stress

by Nancy Rivera



The common denominator that professional organizers come across with clients is too much stuff and the clutter is because there stuff has no home.  This apply to physical things, such as paper, clothing, books but even in the digital world, emails, voicemail, text.  Yet studies have shown that 80% of the time we use 20% of our favorite things.  


So less is best? Yes! Too much of anything affects us.  When we have a lot and the things have no home, we waste time searching for things.  The average American spends 6 weeks a year looking for things.  This is stressful! And I don’t know about you but, I rather be using that time for fun things.

Some make the analogy of disorder to being overweight.   The weight puts stress on our organs the added weight begins to affect other parts of our body.  That is why doctors want us to be leaner in order to be healthier. 
 

Likewise in the home or office, we need to start cutting back slowly because living with less clutter does help us manage our daily stress.  Not only that, when we begin to give up objects or things that are clutter, we really end up gaining something better.  Better health, relationships, time for what we love to do.


 How so? Studies have shown that clutter is a distraction, they say for each piece of paper around us it’s a distraction 10 times. This begins to wear at the brain, constant stimulation produces stress and zaps us of energy.  



I work with clients that suffer with ADHD. For them even more so, they need to live with a clutter free environment otherwise, it causes them to lose focus more frequently, consequently, stress. 

Dr. Ari Tuckman, stated “ADHD involves weaknesses in the “executive functions of the brain, the is a part of the brain that enables us to navigate in a complex world.”  Clutter, drains us of oomph and it impairs our thinking process—we cannot think clearly or make good decision .” 

Therefore, by letting go of these things that really are not bringing us joy or pleasure, not useful or beautiful, we now open up more time and space in our lives for the things that matter the most.  DE cluttering and simplifying our lives will help reduce stress and help all of us stay focus!
 How do you start? First, admit you are overwhelmed, that is a start.

·         - Take a piece of paper and write down what is really important to you? 
·      - How do you think you would feel if this would get done?
·      - When it’s done, how to celebrate the finish product?
·      - Start small that you could start (say a table full of paper, nightstand, pick a horizontal space)
 I am a firm believer in simplicity, even when you start; start small but start in an area that gives you pain, and where you are constantly being reminded that you did not get it done.   But remove from your mind perfection, it’s not about that but improving the quality of life.”  It’s about doing something, rather than doing nothing. The spot that you say “someday I am going to organize this table, these paper…”  Now it’s time, you made up you mind and schedule “someday on your calendar” and at a time when you have the most energy (are you a morning person, or do you kick in gear at 2:00 PM).

The National Association of Professional Organizers (NAPO) did a survey and found out that paper or office is number one request from Professional Organizers and I so agree because it is my number one request, paper and office, then second to that is kitchen and closets, then garages. 

Since paper is my number one call for organizing, let’s work with that:
1.      So decide, where you like to do paperwork, select an area in the home, maybe it’s your office—this is called zoning
2.      Go through the entire home and corral all paper scattered about the rooms and bring them to this location.  Get a box and call it your In Box.  Now you will start the P--
3.      As you sit at your desk or table, you will need the following set-up as you go through, a shred area, trash, and calendar  (could be either digital or paper planner)
4.      You begin the S-Sorting
5.      Now according to the David Allen method, as you go through each piece of paper, make a decision (this is the hard part for people using that executive function of the brain, decision making)  but doing this is a great exercise for that part of the brain according to Doctor Tuckman.
6.      So write on a sticky note, the next step for that piece of paper, for example:  call, get phone number or schedule appointment.
7.      Create 3 piles:   Do this week, Do this month, Do in the future
8.      Accessibility—keep papers near you and your files should be within reach when working with paper
9.      Containerize—select folders for your action For my visual clients, I color code the folders: Red for Now, Orange for later, Yellow for Future

When I work one on one with my clients, I let them select the way they want to categorize their action folders, usually I guide them base on the way they are thinking. 
This can be done in phases, please don’t feel that all this has to be in place before you start, break things down in small chunks, for example one day just collect the paper, next day the sorting, the shredding could be a separate project and so on.

What’s next? Well, one could stop here and schedule on the calendar the next session and break it down into manageable steps like: 
·        -  One session,  have folders ready and write on the folder some main categories as I mentioned already—try to keep the action folders at a minimum, like 3 folders for action to take
·         - Maybe one folder for future projects
·         - Read folder for things you want to read only then discard
·          -Another day, go through the paper and start putting them into the action folders but always when  you work with paper, keep your calendar opened. Why?  Because, it never fails that you come across something that cannot wait any longer, so you need to write the next action and schedule it on your calendar.

This set-up will help in making decisions:

David Allen has the 3 D’s when processing paper:  do it, defer it and delegate it.  But if it is junk mail, dump it! Paper can be boring, so make it fun, put music in the background, invite a friend over to help you stay focus and then reward yourself for getting things completed.
Believe me, once you have a filing system in place that is simple to follow and I highly recommend color coding, than its fun to do.  People avoid filing because they made it too complicated, they don’t remember what the file names are and the files are so packed, no one wants to bother to file in cramped areas.

Now that you succeeded in organizing your paper, you have one location for your paper process, and you have file folders with simplified categories, then you can begin the next project and organize your digital information.

The key when I work with my clients is to ensure that they understand the system, they are part of the creative process, and it’s easily accessible—so have the files next to your desk.

Tip:  Set a timer and in the beginning, try 1 hour clips, after you are caught up, just do 15 to 20 minute twice a week.


Tip: Create an Inbox for just mail and an In-box in your office for processing paper:  this could reside on your kitchen wall to place all of the incoming mail and then have different sections for each member of the family.  There are sorters out there that hang on a wall and have 2-6 slots.  This could be the beginning of your sorting process and purging.


Tip: Scan:  by scanning you reduce the amount of paper you need to keep in files:  Statistics show, 80% of the paper you file, you will not see again.  It’s also a contribution to the eco system when you reduce the amount of paper used.


Tip:  If you like technology, scan information that you need and would like to share with someone else or if you tend to be mobile.  Some apps are like drop box or Evernote then you can synch your devices and can review the documents from the phone, tablet or at someone elses computer—this is great if you travel a lot or have more than one office location.

Finally, control what comes in the home, use services like:  41 pounds.org, to remove junk mail, catalog choice to stop the influx of catalogs and just keep a few that you like. 

If you organized your bookcase, leave 20% of space, then if you buy a book, take a book out and donate.  This will keep you clutter free.  This rule can apply to any place in the home once organized: one it, one out.


Tip:  Purchase a plastic bin and keep it in the garage and label Donate, start putting things you no longer love or need, or use.


Tip:  Go to IRS.gov and get information on how long to keep papers when tax related, otherwise you may only need to keep certain papers for just a year.  Checking with your accountant will also help in giving you parameters of what to keep and for how long.

When you feel in control, you feel calm, you are not easily overwhelmed, so start the New Year with less stress.


Nancy Rivera Mission Organizing - has the tools you need to make your home and work area a place of harmony and efficiency. Call or email me at (813) 514-5696 or nancy@missionorganizing.com to see how I can help you!

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